Reader's Corner: The Lion's Lady by Julie Garwood

Julie Garwood's Castles is one of my favorite books of all time so I easily purchased this book on sale. It was a 1900s romatic novel, ala Barbara Cartland style, which I always enjoy.
I love Garwood's female leads because they are smart, beautiful, strong-willed, responsible - not entirely dependent on men to rescue them every time. Ideal ladies for me.
This romantic book had the right amount of sweetness and sensible story - always a good combination.

Reader's Corner: Where Rainbows End by Cecelia Ahern

My first Cecelia Ahern novel, and what a surprise!

A charming and heartwarming tale of true friendship, love and fate. The lovely characters and their connection from childhood to old age brought me tears, almost every chapter.

After reading this, I gained more appreciation of my relationships and valued my time with

my loved ones. No, nobody died. The characters are flawed but their story, albeit a lot of down and waiting moments, is perfect. It took a long journey for them to realize they are made for each other but I guess, that made this more relevant because in life, you don't always get what you want but in time, and 

This book came at the right time: I was roaming around the mall, waiting for a supplier I'm about to meet. With an hour to spare, I dropped by Book Sale and the title caught my attention.

Sidetrip: Subic Roadtrip

My cousins and I went to a fun Subic roadtrip last September.
Left Bulacan around 3 in the morning to witness the sunrise, unfortunately, it was raining when we reached Zambales. Had breakfast(I cooked!) facing the bay and tried out the Canopy Ride at Subic Treetop Adventure. I learned that I can't do the free fall jump because of my scoliosis, and worse, as per the staff, I may not be allowed to skydive and bungee jump in the future(but I'm seeking second opinion!).
We continued the journey to Olongapo where we stayed at the beach, had a sumptuous feast of grilled pork, chicken, squid and some shrimps for lunch. Lazed on the shore in the breezy afternoon, before we had to go.
Traveled back to Bulacan, but had a quick stop at NLEX to enjoy some Razon's Halo-halo.
Celebrating a great day for us, albeit unfortunate scenarios encountered.
Until the next getaway, gang!

Sidetrip: American Idol 2012

Two Friday nights ago, I was asked to accompany my "favorite" cousin Patricia to see the American Idol 2012 Concert, the stars and show of which she is a fan of. I'm familiar of the show, especially the Filipina Jessica Sanchez and watched a few episodes but I hardly know them to deserve such pricey opportunity. I said yes anyhow because I'm to thrilled to spend an unforgettable night with one of my best friends, am actually more excited to be with her than to see the singers. I had no expectations and advised her beforehand that I might be a boring chaperon. And then the concert night came...
It was a crazy, fun night. The performers were talented and entertaining, I can't help but cheer for them and danced the night away. Wow, Colton Dixon is a revelation.. I'm a late bloomer on these things, right?
I really had a great time seeing them and more so, seeing how happy Patricia was. I'm grateful for another 'new' adventure. This existence is full of surprises most of the time. Thanks Tita and Tricia! Life is good.

Anyone can COOK!

My family and friends can attest to this - I don't cook. I never cook. The words Ayen and cooking cannot be together in a single sentence.
I have always been uninterested in cooking. I love good food and enjoy eating but to prepare the delectable masterpieces myself, "No, thank you!". I grew up in a family of great cooks - my mom and grandmothers - so it was surprising that I lack the skill and curiosity for it. I think cooking is very time and energy consuming when you can purchase delicious food for the same price of buying the ingredients. The closest thing I get to being in the kitchen is washing the dishes or when, ages ago, I was mom's little helper. I'm always annoyed when people question how I don't cook and how it would be when I get married, how will you feed your family, things like that. Well, my perspective has always been "I will not go to college, work hard to build my career and earn well just to end up cooking for someone else. If I want to cook, I will. For myself. Surely, my future spouse won't marry me based on a cooking show criteria, the same way I won't judge my future spouse if he doesn't sing as well as Jason Mraz. And I'll work so hard to afford a cook and to buy my favorite food, ok?". Hehehe. So yeah.

While making my bucket list for 2012, I included "Cook Something" just to try something new for myself. It was actually one of last things I worked on since, being me, it's unexciting. For encouragement, I listed down my favorite food, mostly from restaurants, so I will be motivated to try this new adventure. I asked for recipes and did my research, and for the months of August & September, I'm happy to announce that I, Ayen Santos, non-cook extraordinaire, finally gave cooking a try. For August, I prepared some of my lunch that I bring to the office. Stir fry cauliflower & broccoli and Ginisang Ampalaya. One weekend in Bulacan, I prepared breakfast for my folks - Tinapa Rice and Longganisang Bawang - which lolo and lola enjoyed. I made the same set for a Subic getaway with my cousins last weekend, they loved it too. In addition, I went to the supermarket, buy ingredients and cooked Korean Beef Bulgogi with side veggies weeks ago, I brought some for my officemates and friends and they were so surprised I did cook. Well, me too!

I am yet to fall in love with 'cooking' but I'm glad I surpassed another challenge.
I'm so proud of how much I've changed for the better because of this 2012 Project.
I did it for myself! Life is good!

Sidetrip: Global Mala Project 2012

Yesterday, I had one of the most unforgettable experiences of  2012.

I attended the Global Mala Project 2012. It is one of the largest gathering of the yoga community, and my stepmom, Tita Jing, made that awesome idea of inviting me to go with her.

I've enrolled myself into a Saturday yoga class in our neighborhood early August. After one class, albeit the thoughts of giving up during the activity because it's really hard for the unfit and inflexible me, the feeling afterwards was unbelievably good. No muscle pains, unlike when I'm from the gym, and I feel my spirit is renewed.

I said yes to the invitation because I want to experience something new, and it was a great decision.

I was surprised to see a lot of people, women and men, young and old,  who were passionate about the course. There were a lot of classes the entire day. TJ and I took the Yin Yoga(I'd love to enroll in a class), Yoga & Chocolates(Difficult but TJ said I did great for a newbie.. and there were free almond chocolates as rewards.) and at night, the Trance Dance, which was the highlight. I grooved my way and partied with strangers in a circle. It was liberating and relaxing. The teacher went around asking "What are you dancing for?". As for me, it's LIFE. I feel free and infinite. During the end part where they played a lovely version of "In the Sun", I got teary out of joy and gratefulness. I am so glad I did this.

I spent a an hour of gym work out in the morning, 3 hours worth of yoga activities in the afternoon, and I can't feel any ache at all. I'm like a goddess. Oh yoga, what you did to me. :)

Reader's Corner: The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom

This book had a simple and profound message - that each one of us is connected to one another, 

and whatever we do will have an effect to the next person.Yet another Mitch Albom classic.

And my favorite quote *paragraph* from the bestseller:

"Lost love is still love, Eddie. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those weakens, another heightens.

Memory. Memory becomes your partner.

You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it."

"Life has to end. Love doesn't."

Life is indeed wonderful.

Readers Corner: Have a Little Faith by Mitch Albom

Over the weekend, I spent my free time reading this bestseller. Given it's a Mitch Albom, it's inspiring and heartwarming.The story revolves around two preachers, their journeys which cultivated their faith and a request for a eulogy. This book gave me a new perspective on how to lead my life, in faith and in continuous hope. I wrote down a lot of notes and quotes, one of which is -'you may find there is something beautiful to learn, and it doesn't bite you and it doesn't weaken you, it only proves a divine spark lies inside each of us. And that spark may one day save the world". Enlightening, yes?

I'm in awe at how much I have learned and changed(for the better) these past months. Life is an everyday classroom where I meet people who serves as teachers, students or most of the time, both. I am eternally grateful for this existence.
More books coming up!

Reader's Corner: Fifty Shades Series - Grey, Darker & Freed by E.L. James

When I said that Twilight is real deal sweet, romantic, the works, it means I haven't read Fifty Shades yet.

Fifty Shades, in case you haven't heard yet, is an erotic fiction novel which has been making noises all over the world due to its popularity(especially among women) and the controversies that it produced.
Love stories are my weakness so I just had to gave in to the fad and try one book. The rest is history.

It's the usual boy-meets-girl, boy-sweep-her-off-her-feet, plus relationship-ups-and-downs story but it was so captivating, I find it hard to put the bestseller down. I guess it worked for a lot of lady readers because girls being girls, wishes to be treated, cared for and loved the way the main guy, Christian Grey, treats, cares for and loves Anastasia Steele. Oh well, it worked for me that way. Theirs is a relationship so ideal in the cheesy, lovey dovey sense, it makes me giddy and root for their tandem. Though personally, I would not want to be in such relationship in reality because I find it too complicated and suffocating. (I'm so having haters for saying this. Ha ha ha.) There were sexual scenes, which caused a stir globally, but it did not bother me because I've been through more opening book experiences before.
To sum it up, reading the trilogy was a sweet escape.

The main characters in the story shared a lot of firsts in their relationship. As for me and my 'short fling' with Fifty, it was my first set of e-books and the very first time I finished a trilogy in a weekend's span.
That being said, can I just thank my friends Sheshe & Potxee for supplying me with my copies? I enjoyed them to bits. Now, I have to get back to my actuality of zero Christian Grey and continue striving for my happiness in the here and now.

Laters, baby!

Sidetrip: Pamarta Bali Resort, Bataan

On a rainy August Sunday, my office mates and I travelled up north to Bataan for a quick getaway.
We went for a day of relaxation, over food, videoke and swimming, at Pamarta Bali Resort in Morong. The three hour travel time was worth the beauty of the lush surroundings on the way and back, the fun conversations shared, the nice ambiance of the resort, and the great company of my buddies. I liked the Bali-inspired resort theme, the infinity pool that faces the beach, the nipa hut cottages and the nature feel of the environment. It isn't overcrowded. Plus factor was passing by Subic, where I haven't been to in a long time. It would have been better minus the downpour but it was a good way to rejuvenate, away from work.
I love weekend trips and though it's costly, to travel is worth any cost and sacrifice.

Reader's Corner: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff by Richard Carlson

After a stressful Monday at work, I went home only to see this big blue book in my cabinet, with a note from my stepmom. My stepmom loves giving me books and articles once in a while and when I read the shouting title, 'Don't Sweat the Small Stuff', I was in tears because I had a bad day. When I started to browse the book, which opened to the page where the bookmark is placed, the title of the chapter was "Life is a test. It is only a test". I was crying and immediately called my parents to share how the thoughtful gesture turned around a horrible point in my life and thanked them for being there and for knowing what I needed.
As stated in my previous posts, May and June had been tough months for me. I was really down and I succumb to my parents for advices. This book is a tangible proof of how much they care for me.

'Don't Sweat the Small Stuff' Omnibus is a collection of articles, one lesson for each, with the same approach as that of Regina Brett's God Never Blinks(which I liked too). There are hundreds of insights and thoughts which will help you address every day 'challenges', how to manage them and be the one in control, and see the world in a lighter perspective. Being the over-thinker that I am, this book is a great help to relax myself and made me realize that the problems I thought were problems, challenges I thought were there to bring me down, were just little stuff that I don't need to stress about because I'm bigger than all of them. I'm the one in control, after all. That it's just all in the mind.

I haven't finished the entire book because I only read 5-10 articles each day so I can absorb and reflect more upon each lesson. I read them in the mornings, during breakfast time, as a positive welcome to a new day. I recommend this to everyone because it provides you a newer perspective to your existence(and the package that comes along with it), gives doable advices on how to treat each occurrence and the approach is simple, straight to the point and understandable. You'll learn a lot, no sweat.

Just do it!

Today, while discussing my health concerns with a friend, I was given an eye opener to this insight - "No don't try to eat healthy, don't try to exercise. Just eat healthy and just exercise.. It's only try or do. If you fail it means you didn't do it. But if you do it, you can only improve." And from there, I was inspired to take this "healthier" project more seriously. For myself.

As this month comes to a close, I am proud to announce that I have abstained myself from chips & junk this July. No Cheetos, No Marty's, No Lay's, nothing. And regularly exercised!

This August, I have a better plan - No Fast Food. Goodbye Mcdo French fries, Jolly Spaghetti & KFC mushroom soup. The thought makes me weak but I'm owning it.

I WILL EAT HEALTHIER!

I WILL EXERCISE MORE!

the lookbook project

Each time I re-organize my closet, I usually see clothes I rarely wear and never get to wear at all, piled at the bottom of my drawer. Quite in contrast with my frequent "I-don't-have-enough-clothes" complaints. Last May, along with my pursuit of looking and feeling better, I started this daily posts of my outfits in Twitter and Instagram, a la Lookbook. I did this project 1) To make an inventory of clothes I wear, I rarely wear but will wear more and clothes I will never wear 2) To let go of stuff I will never use anymore and 3) To have an excuse to dress-up. LOL. For the past couples of months, it had been a regular chore for me before I go out, and I've enjoyed the journey. I get to wear things I forgot I had, mix and match stuff and produced better looking attires, went out of my comfort zone and tried on new clothes, gave away stuff for others' use and as a bonus, received compliments. I used to hate the color red with a passion but since this project of mine, I've been more open and accessorize with red every now and then.

My dress up mantra these days, from a Mraz song, is  "You should look as good as your outlook."

The fun process of trying to look good, gives some positive vibes(and colors) especially during gloomy days.

This project is my way of conquering every lazy morning through 

getting up, dressing up and showing up for life!

Sidetrip: Biak-na-Bato National Park

What's supposed to be an afternoon of Sunday driving with my Punkada ended up in a hike in the mountainous areas of San Miguel, Bulacan. Talk about spontaneity. Our friend, Otep invited us to go for a "stroll" yesterday. We thought we'll just drive around town or go malling but in a spur-of-the-moment decision, we found ourselves in Biak-na-Bato, complete in our 'SM'(local mall) get-up. I was wearing hanging blouse and sandals, while Kaye was in her wedges but it was a go.
We trekked for more than an hour, accompanied by a local guide and 2 kids who were so nice to be our 'photographers' and reached the Bahay ng Paniki Cave. I'd like to believe we spelunked but it was more of a photo session for us. It was a fun experience with my friends. In addition, I get to exercise! We had an early dinner of  barbecues, isaw, etc. before going home. Lesson learned? Double check with Otep his destination plans beforehand so we'll be more prepared. He he he.

Reader's Corner: Twilight by Stephenie Meyer

Twilight is so 2008 but it was just this last week of June 2012 that I finally get to read the bestseller. Late bloomer, eh? 


Much has been said and raved about the Twilight saga already so this need not an introduction anymore. For me, it was really a teenybopper vampire loves human love story with cheesy lines, dreamy guy(err, vampire) and all that but I can't help but fall into the captivating trap. It was a feel-good read, me being a hopeless romantic(there, I said it), there were a lot of "Oohs" and "Aww.." moments in the book which were not included in the movie scenes. The story is not remarkable but it hooked readers with Edward and Bella's head-over-heels "You-are-my-life-now" relationship. The cheesiness was more than enough to motivate me to finish Twilight in one weekend. A hundred percent 'Kilig' factor, if I may add. Read it because it will bring you high school giddiness.
Ok, I'm fangirling like a teen now. The End.

Reader's Corner: A Desirable Residence by Madeleine Wickham

My sister and I are big fans of Sophie Kinsella. We have an entire collection and upon reading all her published books, the most logical thing to do is try out her Madeleine Wickham novels. Madeleine Wickham is Sophie's real name. She used Sophie Kinsella as her pen name for the Shopaholic series and some other equally awesome books. If you don't know this trivia yet, you're welcome.


A Desirable Residence is under Wickham's best genre - chick lit.Unfortunately, it did not took me away the way Wickham's Sophie Kinsella bestselllers did. Desirable Residence is about a house(hence the title) and the issues, love, lies and affairs surrounding it. There were funny parts, yes, but it was not for me. I'm kind of sensitive with the 'affairs' portion, honestly. Maybe if I'm in my 30s or 40s, I'll appreciate this more.


I don't have much to rave about A Desirable Residence but I'm still open for other Wickham books. Let's see.

Reader's Corner: For One More Day by Mitch Albom

It's been a while since I read a Mitch Albom, that being Tuesdays with Morrie, but it is a fresh memory to reminisce having read words and words beautifully crafted together to produce a masterpiece about the joys, failures, sadness and triumphs of human existence. 


It couldn't be a better time to get myself a copy of  'For One More Day' than Mother's Day in May (another delayed post!). What hooked me into buying a copy was the teaser "It will make you believe in the eternal power of a mother's love". The phrase hunted me for days until I finally bought one, and I attest, it was one of my best buys. It was an emotional read, with all the rawness, relevance and honesty, for someone like me who grew up without much of my mother's presence around. This book made me realize how much I miss my mom, heightened my love for her and intensified my wishes to be with her. 

The story revolves around a middle-aged guy who, out of a series of failures, decided to die. Along the way, he got an unexpected visit or presence by his already dead mother and from there, comes a journey of reflections, realizations, and revelations by the power of love. The "Times my Mother Stood Up For Me" and "Times I Did Not Stand Up For My Mother" parts brought me a lot of tears. The stories were heartbreaking and heartwarming. I finished the book in an afternoon. Mr. Albom is a star. 


On a more personal note, I hope I could share this book with my mom someday.
As I quote, "Behind all your stories is always your mother's story, because hers is where yours begin."
Makes sense - a lot.

Reader's Corner: Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins

In college, I remembered my classmate Angel referring to this book as the "Next Big Thing after Twilight" and all I did in response was get on with my life. Years later, the book was adapted into a movie, which I surprisingly enjoyed, to the extent of seeing it twice, especially knowing I'm never the one to fall into the adventure/action/sci-fi(?) genre. That's a long sentence. I talk too much.


The story was well-written, the plots and twists were out-of-the-box but relevant, the setting was majestic, Jennifer Lawrence was amazing and it was a different take on reality shows in a world of everywhere reality shows. Though it really reminded me of Death Race.


One weekend in early May(Yes, delayed post!), I borrowed the book copy of my younger sister Cayla and read it through. Since I already saw the movie, much of what I got from the book was predictable and not much exciting but I'm really glad the movie makers were faithful to the book. It was light, romantic and funny when it needed to, emotionally effective, a bit dragging at times(maybe because I know the story already), but all in all, it was a great read. Cayla, who's a big fan of the series, has the entire collection so I'm sure I'll be browsing through the sequels as well. I'm really curious as to what life would be like for Katniss and Peeta after the games. Ok, I searched the Wikipedia for hints but nothing would beat getting the story straight from the book.


Oh well, Happy Hunger Games! And may the odds be ever in your favor.

Find the joy.

May and June had been pretty tough months for me. The week after Pinatubo, I was down with the flu
so I was absent for a number of days. I haven't been that sick in years and with my low pain tolerance to boot, the flu was excruciating, killing me. Went back to work with loads of tasks piled up and it seemed my job has completely taken over my life. I feel very unorganized and overwhelmed with my chores, up until today, my desk folders are in a messy array. My birthday passed and I celebrated it with a guiltless shopping spree which really brought my 'savings' to the brink. I'm also having a hard time with my faith. I'm a Catholic by heart and I want to stay that way forever but it's been really difficult for me. I'm mentally, physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually drained these days. Such exhaustion kept me away from this happiness project of mine. And I'm always nearly in tears and breakdown. Is this depression? What keeps me is hope. It helps that I hold on to my St. Jude prayer that I keep in my pocket. I was reading the verses the other day and I was crying afterwards.

I'm in a confused state now. But one thing is clear, I want to be happy and continue this project.
Ok, not even over-the-top happy. To be "at peace" will do. So here's what I'll work on..

Mental - Stop thinking to much. I'm a time freak, worrywart which heightens my stress level all the time.
Physical - Start exercising again. Take the vitamins everyday. Don't forget the flu shots and have my tests scheduled.
Emotional - Deal with relationships maturely. Don't waste time and others' time, feelings and efforts.
Financial - Start saving again and stop shopping! Budget, Ayen, b-u-d-g-e-t!!!
Spiritual - Pray always. Things will get better. And I'm really serious about attending the HESL retreat.
Educational - Learn a new skill. Save up for driving lessons and try cooking.

Need to work on my attitude starting today. The bright side is I still have July-December.
This is a start.

Side note: Is it just me or I looked happier and healthier when I welcomed 22 than when I turned 21?

Trek, Swim at a Crater, Have Fun - - CHECK!

Of all my 2012 adventures, this has to be the most physically draining and challenging. Take that from self-proclaimed never-athletic me. No amount of research and occasional gym trips prepared me to the exhausting journey to Mt. Pinatubo. We left Manila 2am, arrived in Capas Tarlac around 5, rode the 4x4 vehicle for an hour and at 7:40am arrived at the starting point of the trek. I never thought the trek up the crater would actually last almost 3 hours. There were rocks, streams, mountains all around, lots of lahar and it goes on and on, I believed it was endless. The last 30 minutes to the crater was a "forest" feel and upon reaching the top of the climb, I was in awe of the surroundings. The view of the crater was magnificent! It was a gloomy day so we weren't able to see the water in its turquoise tone but nonetheless, all the effort was worth it.

The experience was made possible and more memorable by my high school friends Xanne and Aldrin, who were very helpful and encouraging all throughout the trip. We took pictures, went down to the shore, had a quick lunch and swam in the waters. It's not everyday you get to swim at a volcano's crater!!!

We originally planned to take the boat to the hot spring area but then it started to rain and our guides asked us to pack and leave the crater earlier. We hiked back for 2 hours, and I have to thank Kuya Michael for assisting me while I cross difficult paths, offering to apply first-aid treatment to my wounded feet and for carrying my bag for a while because I was tired already. My friends and Kuya were so nice to me and made this adventure 100x more special. Though it would take me a long time, stronger motivation and a better physique to climb a mountain again, my first attempt to do it was a success!
I'm proud of myself for trying something way out of my league, pushing my limits and fighting for my adventures. What I lack in agility, I make up for in attitude. LOL.

By the way, I'm taking a short break from this little project of mine to savor the moment(my birthday is coming up!), gain more energy and save some funds for my next trips. I really, really want to go to Coron, Puerto Princesa and Sagada this year. Aja!

Sidetrip: Puerto Galera

I have not been to Boracay nor Palawan, but so far Puerto Galera is my most favorite destination. My first time at the place was  in 2008 with my mom and sister, and it was the best vacation of my life. I love the view of the sea, trees(lots of them), mountains, truly relaxing and breathtaking.
Just this weekend, my officemates and I went for an overnight trip there and albeit short, I was surprised of the unexplainable connection I feel in this place. We did not do much except for an afternoon trip to White Beach to enjoy the sand, banana boat ride and the fun crowd during dinner time. I was not even able to snorkel because it's late already. But I had a great time. I had a body massage on the shore at dusk, and later that evening, a yummy sleep(though only 6 hours) and the nicest dream I've had in a long time. Then, waking up the next morning to silence and just a magnificent view of the bay. Aaaah, life.
I'm quite afraid riding the speedboats because of the tragedy years ago, and the travel time is long and tiring, but Puerto Galera is just beautiful and inviting, I'd love to go back.
There goes my birthday wish..

FINALLY opened a bank account. YEAAAH!!!

For real. With small but actual savings in it. Seriously?
Saving is probably one of the hardest but necessary tasks in my 2012 project.
For a impulsive shopper such as yours truly, it took me quite some time to save enough and go for this practical and mature decision - that is, to open an account. I read somewhere that one should pay himself first. This means that before you go spending off your salary in needs and wants, save some for yourself because it in this amount do you truly care for yourself(Now I sound like a self-help book. no way!) My parents keep on insisting me to save, save, save. Too hard-headed to listen, I ended up being broke a lot of times, most significantly, when I quit my first job. 


With this, and the realization that I'm almost into 2 years of working but with zero peso saved, hit me and made me write it down as one of my things to accomplish this year. And gladly, I did it this month by myself. I'm pleased. Woot, woot. 


I still have a long way to go, building up my saving discipline and all, but this is the beginning. 

Reader's Corner: Twenties Girl by Sophie Kinsella

Twenties Girl is my latest acquisition of Sophie Kinsella published books, thanks to National Bookstore's Summer Sale. It took me a while to decide on buying this because I was more into the Shopaholic series, and I thought the "ghost" synopsis will not work for me. It was corny, or so I thought.

I read(and finished it) one lazy Sunday afternoon in April, and boy, was this bestseller amazing.

It was the first Kinsella masterpiece which made me laugh out loud, giddy, protective, touched, sad, angry, happy and in tears, throughout the story. The protagonist Lara's and the "ghost" Sadie's crazy but lovable characters jived well, and that it is in their strange relationship and journey in finding a missing necklace, that makes the book an exciting read. In addition, it was through their connection that the characters discovered more about themselves, learning from each other. 

I'm more of a fifties soul, but I have to give it to Twenties Girl for warming my heart and inspiring me to go for the ones(people, things, dreams) I love. 

My Sophie Kinsella book collection(hope I could post them soon) is now completed and unintentionally,I saved the best for last. Go Twenties Girl!

Sidetrip: Hacienda Darasa

A month ago, my officemate treated us for a weekend getaway in Batangas for her birthday.

Fresh air, lush surroundings and some peace and quiet - just what we needed after a tiring week at work.

Happy Birthday Ate Joy!

A Backpacker's Trip to Ilocandia

I spent my Holy Week this year crossing out one of my 2012 must-visit destinations, Ilocos.

Making good use of the 5 day long weekend, my sister, aunt and cousin joined me in this 3 days & 4 nights adventure up north. With Google material in handy, I organized an itinerary for us that would cover the best of sightseeing in Ilocandia.

Day 1 - Pagudpud (Ilocos Norte)

From Manila, we traveled 12 hours(7pm-7am) to the seaside area of Pagudpud. We checked in at Madrid Beach Resort (located in Saud beach) had breakfast in Emohruo Restaurant and off we go to a Tricycle Tour. In the morning, we visited the Southern parts of Pagudpud - Boreajador lighthouse, Kapulupuran Rock Formation and the spectacular Bangui Windmills. In the afternoon, we headed to the northern part and were in awe at the sight of Patapat Viaduct. Next stops were the white sand Maira-Ira beach & Blue Lagoon(where we also had our late lunch), Bantay Abot Cave, and we hiked to Kabigan Falls. Back at the resort, my aunt and I swam for a bit until sunset, had grilled stuff and halo-halo for dinner, and henna tattoos before bed time.

Day 2 - Laoag (Ilocos Norte)

After some beach lovin' and breakfast, we left Pagudpud and traveled for 2 hours via bus to the capital, Laoag City. We checked in at Isabel Suites around noon, freshen up a bit and had lunch at the nearby Jollibee. Then off we went to an afternoon tricycle tour of our Laoag must-sees - Malacanang of the North, the stunning Paoay Church, Marcos Mausoleum and the Paoay Sand Dunes. Around 5pm, we were dropped off in front of the Sunken Bell Tower of Laoag. We walked around and took pictures at the Laoag Cathedral, Plaza and Capitol. While my sister and cousin rested at the hotel, my aunt and I watched the Good Friday procession. In the evening, our group met up, walked and found the popular and jampacked Cafe Saramsam, where we had Ilocano dishers for dinner. We tried the Saramsam Pasta and Pinakbet Pizza. Walking back to the hotel, we dropped by the capitol to take more pictures, stopped by Ilocos Stop(ala Mini Stop), got ourselves some ice cream, then it was time to rest.

Day 3 - Vigan (Ilocos Sur)

On out third and last day, we left Laoag shortly after breakfast and rode a bus that would take us to Vigan. After a couple of hours and tricycle rides later, we were at the cobble-stone steps of Calle Crisologo and Heritage Village, the top destination in Vigan. With our heavy backpacks, we walked around the place, visited the Cathedral and Burgos Plaza and had lunch at McDonald's. Afterwardsm we went on another tricycle tour that took us to the Bell Tower of Vigan, Jar making area, Hidden Garden and Baluarte zoo. We dropped by the local market to grab some Chichacorn, and were back by 4pm at Calle Crisologo and had yummy Vigan empanada and okoy at Insiang's. Then, we headed off for some souvenir shopping and met up with my other cousins who were also in Vigan at the time. We had some delicious barbecue at Plaza Burgos before our group bid goodbye. Early evening, we were at Partas Terminal where we bought more pasalubong(Bibingka and pudding) c/o Marcia's Delicacies, before we rode the 6:45pm bus that would take us back to Manila. After 8 hours of travel, we were dropped off at an NLEX gas station and we are back in Bulacan by 4am.

Traveling to Ilocos is exhausting but I'm glad I did it, at least once in my life. There are so much places to see, food to try and activities to explore in Ilocandia. I'm proud to cross-out this destination off my bucket list, and more so because I paid for this trip myself. Yessss!

Life Lessons for March 2012

I sure am one lazy blogger. Well, I have not much updates to supply anyway since 2 planned March getaways were canceled due to fortuitous events, or in Oblicon lingo, "force majeure".

Read on for my monthly dose of lessons learned.

61. What does not kill you will make you stronger. (Fighting!)
62. Thick (but approachable) face, Dark (but kind) heart.
63. Pay it forward.
64. Never let you past dictate to you who you are but let it be a part of who you will become.
65. From buying something to choosing friends, from tasks to be done to having fun, quality over quantity.
66. Love your job, love your boss, love your team.
67. Learn from other people's mistakes. You can't make them all yourself.

68. What I never had, I never miss.
69. Give yourself a break after a long day's work. Some me time to relax, refresh and recharge to face curve balls ahead.
70. Never let the fear of striking out keeps you from playing the game.
71. The only perspective is to really be there.
72. Breathe. It calms the mind.
73. No matter how good or bad the situation is, it will change.
74. Happiness comes from within. Love yourself for who or what you are.

75. Envy is a waste of time. You already have what you need. (Noted!)
76. What you can measure, you can manage.
77. Be better than before, better than others and better than expected! (Company motto FTW)
78. Live without apology. Own your life.
79. Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
80. Before feeling inferior about others doing something useful and valuable, realize that you are doing something useful and valuable too.
81. Knowing the enemy is winning half the battle. (Art of War)
82. When making decisions, always use your reason. But consider your heart for heart has reason even reason could not understand. (Overheard)
83. Don's speculate. You need evidence before you come up with conclusions. Ask, research and study first. (Morning lesson)
84. You don't have to agree on everything. Voice out your opinions when you have to.
85. Sometimes you really have to do things you are not comfortable doing. Pero ganyan sa business, walang personalan.
86. You try, you fail. You try, you fail. But, the real failure is when you stop trying.

87. If it's a broken part, replace it. If it's a broken arm then brace it. If it's a broken heart then face it. (Details in the Fabric)
88. Hope is the only thing stronger than fear. A little hope is effective; a lot of hope is dangerous. (Hunger Games)
89. Embrace your weaknesses and turn them into strengths.
90. It's okay to be happy. For as long as you don't trample others' feelings to get happiness.
91. Be spontaneous. When a planned getaway is cancelled *ahem*, there's another adventure waiting for you. Go and be game.

Reader's Corner: I Got Your Number and Remember Me? by Sophie Kinsella

Sophie Kinsella is my favorite author. I love her so much, I'm dedicating a future post about my adoration for her and her books. For now, here are my thoughts on some of her bestsellers I got for discounted prices days ago(Thank you National BooksStore Summer Sale! I'm coming back!). I finished both in 4 working days, and am pleased with myself. But really, who can put a Sophie Kinsella book down? Read on.

I Got Your Number

This is Sophie's latest book. The story revolves around a girl, Poppy, who "stole"(hers got stolen) a mobile phone she found in a trash bin, so she could keep track of her lost engagement ring(double whammy, I know). The thing is, the owner of the phone is a businessman, Sam, who wants the phone back. More so, he was annoyed because Poppy is meddling with his e-mails and calls. But of course, Poppy can't give it back yet since it's the number she gave away to those who could help her find the ring. They agreed in this awkward settlement, and as they continue with their lives, they exchange hilarious messages and were trapped in situations which made them know each other more. It's funny and not too cheesy, I kind of wish there are more romantic parts but that means it would be cheesy. I like the balance, and the pair complement each other. (There were footnotes in this book, with quirky anecdotes, but i find them confusing at first). Very light, enjoyable read. I've fallen for Sam Roxton.

Remember Me?

Remember Me?'s plot is something you would not want to happen to you. Lexi Smart woke up one day, from a car accident, with 3 years worth of life memories lost. Imagine her surprise knowing she already had a husband, a high flying career, lots of stuff, and ultra new, pumped up twenty-eight version of herself. The last memory she had was being twenty-five with a problematic life she hated. As she was trying to recollect, she discovered secrets about herself that may destroy her current dreamy lifestyle. This is an amusing way of sharing to readers the most important things in life, and clearly, it's not all wealth and power. I like the fact that it's a take off from Sophie Kinsella's usual complicated girl-girl meets boy in a complicated situation-complicated before, now okay-happily ever after narrative.

I conquered Corregidor!

I have always wanted to take a day tour to Corregidor since college, and after countless unchecked bucket lists and re-schedules, I finally made my way into the picturesque island last Sunday. My boyfriend and I availed of the Sun Cruise package which includes roundtrip ferry rides from Manila Bay to Corregidor and back, lunch, entrance fees and a tour guide.

It was a sunny morning when we arrived and we rode a tramvia to go around the place, along with a highly infotaining tour guide (Armand) and tourists.

It had been an educational trip with highlights including ruins of baracks and batteries, memorials, museums, a lighthouse, and tunnels. I have learned about the country's history during World War, more than what I have gained during my years in school.

Visiting Corregidor was an interesting experience. Aside from the photos and memories, I went back with a better understanding and appreciation of the past's events. Traveling really does wonders in terms of opening one's eyes to places, stories, culture and people. Now I can't wait for my next adventure.

If you're in it, I'm in it.

My apologies to start in a negative light, but I'm such in a sad mood at the moment, so yeah.

Several people, whose opinion I value, are kind of against this project of mine. I understand that they are worried if my physical state can handle the Pinatubo trekking, if I'm financially stable to sustain the travel expenses and my day-to-day existence(I'm not so sure too), if I can survive backpacking, if I can even do this. I was in tears taking everything in(or am I just that emotional?) because I felt that it was my dream they are rejecting. I have read countless blogs and reviews to further open myself to what I am diving into, and still continued with my goal.

It's a tough road, I know, but I'm fighting for it. All I need is a little support.

The past week had been a hurly-burly blurry occasion juggling work pressures and booking a Holy Week getaway. Both draining in their respective sensibilities, if I may add. I'm about to give up on the adventure planning side because I felt the universe is not with me - I encountered an unfortunate banking situation, I can't find a hotel in Pagudpud that will work with our budget, my sister might not be able to go with us, so and so.

And then one afternoon, my aunt called that she already found a place for us. Come next morning, my bank issue is settled and finally, my sister can go. We worked things out. Same case with the turn downs, it will get better.

Just now, things are clearer to me. I realized that with this journey I'm taking, I'll experience a lot of curveball to weaken me. With this, I have to be determined enough to go on, knowing by mind and heart what this project means to me.

This is my dream. It's worth it.. it will be.

What up, February?

The first half of February flew by in a blur due to the demands of work. Seminars and a big company event ate up most of my time, but I’m not complaining since these have been wonderful opportunities for my (*brace yourselves*) professional and personal growth. Pretty engaged with a master list of tasks, I’ve left little to no chance of posting an update here. It’s only now, remaining days of the month that I finally found the instant to fill in the highlights of the busy February that was.

1. Seminars, seminars and did I say, seminars?

I work for a training company specializing in courses for small and medium enterprises (SMEs). I do the organizing, sales & marketing, material preparation, logistics, reports and planning for these seminars and though it’s a bit overwhelming, this is the best job for me (yet). Meeting people from all walks of life and being appreciated by them is truly fulfilling.

On the other hand, we staged this big event, an awarding ceremony for top young Filipino marketers, early February.I met a lot of industry bigwigs there and was inspired by the bright awardees. Our egress ended close to midnight but we sure had fun.

2. Yumi’s Homecoming or The Night of Polka Dots

My bestfriend(slash)college classmate Yumi, who’s now Singapore-based, went home for a couple of days. Since her trip is short, we just had dinner at KFC Gateway, mall we frequent to during good old, university days. It’s been almost 2 years since we graduated. Time flies fast and we lead different lives now, but it was great to see them. Unintentionally, 3/4 of us were wearing polka dots. Talk about destiny. Haha.

3. Valentine's Day

We celebrated Valentine's Day this year at home. My stepsister cooked yummy salpicao while I bought drinks and ice cream, as contribution. It was a relaxed date, away from the stress and traffic Valentines bring.

4. One Laguna Sunday

I spent one Sunday in our Laguna home to attend my younger stepsister's Family Day at St. Scholastica's. We went to her school mid-morning, and my tummy got giddy over the delicious offerings at the fair. Pizzas, fish & fries(which I loved!), Cerealicious, dirty ice cream, buko shake and more. We had lunch (of my favorite, shrimps!) at home, rested and chatted for a bit before we returned to the school to watch the students' presentations. Early evening, we drove to Tagaytay to chill and boy, was it chilly + windy + cold there. We had some Starbucks before we decided to go home. Albeit short, it was a peaceful and work-free weekend.

5. Bustos Fiesta

Every last Sunday of February, my town in Bulacan celebrates fiesta. There's a carnival, fairs with all sorts of stuff to sell, novenas, processions and yep, food. Loads of it. When in Bulacan, I wake up early on Saturdays because it's Lola's trip to the market and I enjoy accompanying her. The people I see there are folks I've met since I was young and the conversations I overhear are hilarious. Lola got me pop rice and some rice cakes for breakfast. For lunch, we had crabs and shrimps(LOVE). Just when I thought it's over, we had Chicken Teriyaki for dinner. Blissful Saturday, it is. Come Sunday, it was the day of the fiesta. We had family members, relatives and friends over for lunch and need I say more? We're in food heaven.